soo my gf said she wanted a break bc she(and her dad told her to) take a break so she can stuidy for exsams and she have adhd and she didnt do well on her marks last term. now we are in no contact for 3 weeks
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But like... I'm going to think a little and it's exams now and like I know I haven't talked to you very much and all week but I'm just really busy studying and with my art and stuff and it's just a lot of pressure and I feel for you with final exams it's also a lot of pressure it's why I actually wanted to wait until you stop writing but I think maybe we should just take a break maby and go back to friends if you know what I mean.. like it's really not you I'm just really struggling to keep up with all the pressure of school and stuff and I'm really sorry about what happened over the phone I really didn't want it but I don't know when we'll see each other again where you don't have to write exams straight after that.... I'm sorry ❤️)
did she explain what the “break” means for her? like is it a pause to focus or does it feel like she’s pulling away emotionally too?
breaks like this feel awful, but giving her the space she asked for might actually help you think straight too. whenever i’m in no contact, i jot things down just so the thoughts don’t eat me alive.
my ex’s family stepped in and suddenly everything was “for her studies” and i was just… pushed out. that confusion hits so hard, especially when you don’t know what’s actually her and what’s pressure