I am not hurt the way it expected to be hurting. when I think about it I don't feel good and I also don't feel bad. It's like I am numb. I no longer cry about it. I no longer have a heavy heart about it. I no longer look at my phone waiting to see his message or his call. I am no longer concerned of what he feel about us. I now have a certain piece of mind and piece of heart that I really cannot explain. Even when I remember how our story ended, I really have no feelings (good/bad) about it...
this is a good place to be in...
Last updated on:2025-11-19T13:28:19+05:30
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i’m curious, did this shift happen slowly for you or did it feel like one day you just woke up and the weight was gone?
I just woke up and realized it's no longer hurting and stinging. I was even shocked. I even tried to think about him intentionally so that I can see whether I will feel anything, but I felt nothing
how long did this take?
after going back to him 3 times in 2 yrs... although after the last disappointment, I started feeling this 1 day later...
honestly, if this is where you’re at, just let yourself be here. the quiet parts after all the chaos usually mean your body’s finally catching up.
it's so loving and peaceful. no effort or anything
when my last breakup finally stopped punching me in the chest, i hit that same weird calm. i remember waking up one day and realizing i didn’t check my phone once for him. it felt… neutral. almost scary at first, but also like damn, maybe i’m actually healing.
I have actually tried to remember him so that I can see whether I will feel like crying or the peace of mind is actually true and I have not cried or felt anything so I am sure that this peace of mind is here to stay...