So, we've reconnected after I decided to cut off contact to calm myself down and stop embarrassing myself further by asking for another chance. Now we're comfortable chatting with each other, even though we still talk about college stuff. I don't know if this is called friendzone or repairing our relationship. She got close to another guy after we broke up, but I don't know how they are now because I don't dare to find out. sometimes she stalk me tho with with alt acc cause she remove my ig and repost some sad stuff in tiktok (when in no contact). is this breadcrumb or am i just overthinking some stuffđź’€. im not that crazy anymore tho atleast i can calm myself down now (but just have that little bit of hope in me still).
Last updated on:2025-11-21T03:09:30+05:30
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when you two talk now, does she ever bring up your past together or is it strictly surface-level stuff like classes and college?
Nope, we are still only talking about classes and college because we have only been talking for three days now
my ex used to watch my stories from a burner account and drop sad quotes while telling me “we’re better as friends.” it messed with my head so bad because it felt like breadcrumbs but also like… maybe they still cared. that push and pull feeling really drains you. i feel that little bit of hope you’re talking about. it’s the hardest part to kill.
how long did it take to start talking again.
it took 21 days for me
@DreamNJoy781 oww wow it's been 14days since we've been in no contact with my ex and he is the one who blocked me on all socials I don't know if we will ever talk
@Enhle I hope everything goes well for you. I was being clingy on her for three months before deciding no contact, and it didn't go well, so take your time to at least not be too obsessed with him
@DreamNJoy781 I was obsessed for the first 2weeks after our breakup I'm fine now I deleted his number and everything problem I found out I was pregnant on Monday it's stressing me out
if you don't have any expectations then you won't get hurt. If you feel that friendship is ok without getting feelings hurt then keep the friendship going but set boundaries for yourself. All this is to protect yourself every step of the way.