Everytime I see him with another girl I get a gut wrenching feeling in my stomach and my mind goes blank. All I think about is how I used to be that girl. I seen him today with 2 girls, one hugged him and I've never been so jealous and the other one rested her head on his shoulder and touched his face multiple times. the worst part is, she was my best friend. What do I do I need advice.
Last updated on:2025-11-20T22:52:38+05:30
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can i ask… were you and this friend still close when she started doing all that with him? or did something already feel off between you two before this happened?
we started drifting apart as me and my ex partners relationship started getting toxic
this is pulling back from both of them for a bit. like, protecting my brain from seeing things that reopen the wound. even muting or avoiding places they might be. it’s not forever. just until the sharpness wears off a little.
i had an ex who moved on with someone from our own friend group and every time i saw them together it felt like someone punched me in the chest. i’d freeze up and just… disappear inside myself. the part where you said she was your best friend, i swear that’s the kind of betrayal you don’t forget easily. it’s not just jealousy. it’s grief plus humiliation plus “why wasn’t i enough.” i’m really sorry you’re feeling that.
This explains my exact situation on how i feel, this made me feel seen thank you
to be honest this is so normal after a breakup. it’s the most horrible feeling in the world but it just shows you still care, maybe you don’t love him but you definitely probably care. it’s normal to be jealous and honestly i think something that helps me is honestly just put in some headphones with some music you like and drown it all out and ignore it. i know that’s not easy but that’s my way of dealing with it. good luck 🤍
I definitely still care, it's hard to see him move on when I'm still stuck here. But I am definitely still trying my hardest to move on and your advice helped thank you
it’s been nine months and I feel this every time I see her. she lives 200 feet from me so it never goes away
we broke up on Monday and he moved in with new girl on Friday after a 15 + year relationship