I want him to want me. idk if I'm just in denial or something. I mean probably but I just don't buy it. I know we need space rn to deal with our personal problems on our own but it doesn't feel right. For it to just be done without wanting to try again when the times right. I wish he'd drop the wall and let me in. we have a fairytale type of love. that stuffs rare man.
Last updated on:2025-11-20T01:53:02+05:30
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can i ask… did he actually say he doesn’t want to try again later, or is that the part you’re filling in because he feels distant right now?
what usually helps me is giving myself a tiny pause before chasing the idea of “maybe later.” when i stop feeding that hope for a second, i can breathe a bit. you don’t have to let go forever, just don’t let the hope run your whole day.
i remember holding on to this exact hope with my ex because what we had felt… unreal. like storybook stuff. when it ended, my brain kept saying “there’s no way something this rare just dies.” i kept thinking he’d come back once his walls came down or his life calmed down. it took me a long time to accept that wanting it really bad doesn’t make someone choose you, even when the love felt magical. you’re not crazy for feeling this. it’s the heartbreak talking