he tried to gaslight me and make me the bad guy (he called and i didn't answer) he said he needed me after what all the disrespect and the cheating and lying
Last updated on:2025-11-20T23:15:03+05:30
he tried to reach out to me after i went no contact with him
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when he said he “needed” you, did he actually say what for… or was it just another way to pull you back in?
when someone treats me like that, i’ve learned to just step back for a bit. not to punish them, just to hear my own thoughts again.
my ex used to pull the same thing… cheat, lie, disrespect me, then flip it like i abandoned him when i didn’t pick up the phone. it messes with your head so bad
insecure guys like him want to make sure that u are the bad guy when in reality they are the ones and it’s just a mask they put on and props to you for not answering because now he knows he can’t call and do wtv he wants u set a boundary and you are gone forever and he has to live with that and he will definitely regret it
Multiple times with him, each time it became worse. More arguing more lying etc. You can read the same book multiple times but it has the same ending. Don't fall into that endless loop girl it is so difficulty to get back out. We are here to support you
this has been my story 3 times because I went back to my ex 3 times... it NEVER got better...he now has a woman who is 4 months pregnant for him... but if you want to give it a chance, do it. your story might be different...