i know it's only been day 37 of nc. I'm not even sure if I'm sure..uk..but i still want him to reach out to me so i can move on already. I've been talking to this new guy he seems nice but i still have this tiny silver of what ifs in my head. hope he can reach out soon so i can move on...✌️
Last updated on:2025-11-21T03:00:34+05:30
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do you feel like you need him to reach out for closure, or do you feel like you’re waiting to see if he still cares?
i know my heart needs to see if he still truly cares because he used to love me so much..atleast that's what I've been shown.
what helps me in moments like this is not fighting the confusion. sometimes i tell myself “it’s okay to want two things at once.” takes a bit of the pressure off.
yes but the temptation to stalk him to know what he feels or try to hide is hard.
when i hit around day 30 something, i kept wishing my ex would just text me so i could finally close the chapter. i even tried talking to someone new and still felt that tiny “what if.” it’s such a lonely place to sit in, wanting to move on but also wanting them to give you that last bit of clarity. you’re not wrong for feeling both at the same time
i know right. it's like i want him back but i don't know if i truly want that too. if he comes back and it's been like day 38 so i got to move on to give this person and my self a chance.
we don’t know if he will come back to you. but if you keep your hopes up you won’t be able to move
on. I’d suggest to keep talking to the new guy, just go slow.
you're right, thank you.