I'm already feeling so much better, not because I stopped loving her but be abuse I need to find my purpose and my drive in life more than anything, prioritise your life before any relationship unfortunately that's just how it is, someone has to join your life not be the centre of it. I don't know if we are meant to be together or just a lesson for eachother but I will stay pray for her I will do the best for myself and I will try to live my best life anyway. She may have broke me but now I realise I needed it.
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when you say she broke you, do you mean the breakup itself or the way things were before that?
things were perfect In a way, we were long distance and are busy with our own lives but we had never argued, not for lack of passion but I believe she got overwhelmed by everything I had to offer and her own life, just the way it is
letting both things be true at once. you can still care about her and still choose yourself. you don’t have to rush the “healed” version of you.
when my ex shattered me and i swear it was the only thing that pushed me to finally look at my own life. it sucks that pain is what wakes us up, but damn… same.
that’s great for you! I hope I can get to one month no contact.
So ... Do you actually feel the 30 days no contact actually works? I'm on day 12 and it's been a Rollercoaster! Constant battle in my head between wanting to get in touch with him and reminding myself it was him who rejected me and made me feel not good enough. I know I am. But his rejection was more than a punch to my self-worth it was a spit on my feelings for him. That pain still lingers on. I cried today. But less than 10 minutes. I know I'll be fine. I just wish I could know with certainty, there's hope at tge end of the light/30 days 😢
no, you will still love them if the love was real until the day you die thatsbwhat I can say for me but what you don't understand is no contact does mean just not talking to them or seeing them it means fully moving on with your life, no looking at messages or pictures or their email anything, you can cry you can stay in your feels trust me its meant to hurt so you can evolve past who you were with them that's the point, it's going to such your supposed to miss them if it was real. so yeah, be sad but learn, feel grief and realise why it's happened, most Importantly focus on getting better at every aspect in your life right now
keep on praying... psalms 20:4