Things have slowly moved forward. I am feeling better in myself but still have days where I miss him. I still wonder if he has regrets for ending things the way he did. We are on speaking terms (only due to our dog). However this has remained calm and in some strange way, part of my healing. Knowing that he is ok and still cares in some ways has made me feel better. I’m not fully there yet but can see the wood through those big high trees.
Last updated on:2025-11-22T01:55:03+05:30
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when you talk to him about the dog, does it feel grounding or does it pull at that part of you that still hopes a little?
in this stage is letting the good days be good without questioning them. and on the bad days, just reminding myself it’s normal to still miss someone who mattered.
when me and my ex shared a dog, those random calm check ins messed with me but also weirdly helped. it’s like you’re grieving and soothing yourself at the same time 😮💨 you’re doing so much better than you think.