today my friend send me a screen shot of his post it was a picture of his sister with her newborn baby. I started crying immediately not only am I not apart of it but I'm the last to know through all our break ups in our 5 years together he always called me when something big happened in his life. I'm even thinking in my head they all happy celebrating and I'm miserable
Last updated on:2025-11-22T13:52:55+05:30
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did it sting more because you weren’t told, or because it reminded you how big a part of his life you used to be?
it's just makes me feel unimportant
when that stuff hits me, i just let myself feel it for a bit then i remind myself that their celebrations don’t take away my pain or my worth. it usually helps me breathe again, even a little.
I haven't stopped crying today. it's just hard realizing I've spent 5 years building relationships with these people and I'm replaceable to them.
my ex’s sister had a baby a month after we broke up and i found out through some random insta story. i remember sitting on my kitchen floor just crying cuz i wasn’t “family” anymore. it’s such a specific kind of heartbreak.
like my heart is breaking because he always said his mother thought of me as a daughter and his sister loves me I went on family events and holidays with them for 5 years I left my family to be with them and we not even a month broken up and I'm already forgotten so now I'm crying am I supposed to even send a congratulation message 💔 he didn't even have the decency to let me know I guess I never meant anything to any of them
sending you hugs ❤️
thank you so much I could really need it I haven't stopped crying today.