I shared my story today and got some amazing responses I did realise that my relationship was indeed a toxic one always and it even after giving a second chance is a bargain only, it's him twisting words and again confusing me. but this time I won't let him do that to me.
Last updated on:2025-11-22T12:47:03+05:30
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when you say he started twisting things again, was there a specific moment that made it click for you this time?
Like he changes his statements, has passive aggressive tone sometimes tries to bring me down softly when I say this hurts me he says he's joking I can't tolerate this anymore
yup they make u seem like ur the problem. get defensive when u are spot on n catching on. I went to therapy thinking I was the problem an tripping. whole time I was right about everything I felt
Glad you took the right step
what helped me was writing down the things he said vs what actually happened. every time i felt confused, that list reminded me i wasn’t imagining it. it kinda kept my brain from slipping back into the fog.
Thank you so much for this.
i went through the same thing where my ex would twist every damn thing i said and make me feel like i was the problem. even when i tried giving it another chance, it was like walking back into the same fire. it’s a weird relief and heartbreak combo when you finally see it clearly. proud of you for catching it now
yes it is, a bittersweet feeling that we realise the toxicity, but it hurts to see that someone we expected to be the lover of our life just didn't fulfill that dream.