yes he called at 1st I went numb, speechless. shocked surprised but I didn't feel i shd entertain his wrong doing. but now im reliving this moment like if only I did talk, what would have I said, did I do wrong not to talk. I called 3 days later but didn't feel I could talk.
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honestly at the heat of the moment I felt very cold, I did say "what do you want" he said i dont want nothing just unblock me. i said il think about it. can't make no promises. then he say be civil grow up. stop being childish. so I said again im happy this way. you dont need to stress of me. you go high way I go my way. you know very well why I let you go let's not bring it up. the lizard cheated on me. now expecting me to give him access. nope I unblock for few hrs then blocked him. I enjoyed playing with his mind.
when you called back after 3 days, what stopped you from talking? like was it fear, anger, or just feeling empty?
i remind myself that the version of me in that moment was just trying to survive. you did what you could with the emotional energy you had then. maybe let yourself breathe a bit before deciding if you even owe him a conversation.
my ex called me out of nowhere after he cheated and i literally froze. i hung up and then spent DAYS replaying it like “maybe i should’ve said something.” that cycle of reliving the moment is brutal, it’s like your brain won’t let the moment just… be. you’re not wrong for how you reacted. shock does weird things to us