I felt so fine and then he came back, i always think that i’m over him and i played with my heart, but it’s not, my heart felt so heavy tonight, and i felt that this is the last time we talked, i felt depressed and heavy, my heart broke million piece, how come i could glue it together. i’m with orher guy rn and we r just friend but i felt my heart is heavy too, like empty heavy
Last updated on:2025-11-24T23:17:03+05:30
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did something he said tonight hit an old wound or make you feel replaced? the heaviness sounds like there’s something specific underneath it.
when my heart felt like that, i stopped trying to “glue” anything. i just let it be messy for a bit. i’d tell myself “okay, this hurts” and i’d go super slow with people around me. it usually settles once i’m not fighting it so hard.
my ex popped back in after months and i swore i was “fine” too. then one convo and boom i was crying like nothing ever healed. that weird heavy-empty feeling… yeah i lived in that for a long time. it’s like your heart remembers even when your brain tries to move on
i undertand how you feel. you feel like your healing and then thy come back and all these old memories come back , alongside that feeling of hope that maybe they’ve changed? i think you should let yourself mourn him , but also not speak to him again . out of sight of of mind is the best mindset in my opinion . distract yourself , do something you love , just try your hardest not to fall into this hole . it will get better 💓
i do distract myself with everything, but it’s so hard, i don’t think i love him but how come my mind just think about him 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔