guys i’m in love with my ex still and i need help!!
how do u move on and how do i
is it even worth it because i don’t think it’ll happen.
i at least wanna be friends with him but he’s blocked me in everything (we didn’t end on bad terms idk why he did it)
and we’ve been smiling at each other at school and stuff IDK WHAT TO DO HELP ME PLEASE.
Last updated on:2025-11-24T15:29:02+05:30
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i ground myself in what’s real. he blocked you, that’s the part you can’t ignore. you can smile back but try not to build stories around it. it keeps you stuck.
when he blocked you, did anything happen right before that that might’ve scared him or made him pull back? even something small?
yeah we hadn’t talked for a few months and then my best friend told him to unblock me and we talked for a week and then he told me “i want you to know that you’re loved and i’m sorry i couldn’t be the one to love you forever but im lucky for the time i did” and he blocked me then a week later got his friend to text me and say that wasn’t true
i had an ex do the same thing. he blocked me everywhere then acted soft in person like nothing happened. that push pull stuff messed with my head for months. it wasn’t about me, he just didn’t know how to handle feelings so he ran. i’m sorry you’re in that space rn
@gayclown42 thank you so much i’m sorry that happened to you
let yourself feel it to the fullest extent. when you end things amicably, it makes it even harder because you still have love for each other with nowhere to go. the only place you can put that energy is in yourself. do something nice for yourself. take the good with the bad of the relationship. understand no matter what the future holds, you had a beautiful relationship for the time period you did—even though it's really hard, believe me, I know firsthand, embrace the unknown of it all with open arms. loving someone is never a waste. be kind to yourself in this grieving process, you more than deserve it.
thank you so so so much this helped a lot. i hope you’re okay!
@caitie I struggled for a long time because of the nuances of my past relationship. it wasn't a black-and-white split. it was really hard to realize that. it's hard to mourn the living. a friend really helped me see a more positive perspective of that and I'm really glad to share that with you who has a similar situation. 💙