i thought i was getting better , like i hadn’t cried yesterday and i was sort of feeling optimistic about the future . I don’t want to date anyone else for a long time because it will take me ages to get over me over him . we were together for a year and a half , i don’t want to trust anyone else like that again .
I was speaking to his sister and she reminded me that he still loves me and we couldn’t control the breakup, it was just his parents. It sort of comforts me knowing he still cares for me .
anyways as i was saying , i thought i was going to be okay but it’s just hit me he’s gone. And because we don’t live near there is a possibility we might never talk or see eacother again . i miss him , bad . im remembering how he said he loved me , how we’d stay up calling all night , how he’d look at me after we kissed , how he’d hug me . and i feel like my worlds going to come crashing down all over again . I don’t want him to move on while im stuck mourning his love.
that was my best friend bro 😕
Last updated on:2025-11-25T01:57:31+05:30
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when you say his parents caused the breakup, were they always against it or did something specific happen that made it fall apart?
@Leftsoul his mom really liked me , and she still does . it’s just ever since his sister got a boyfriend he’s always been at their house and it made his parents realise my ex needed to be with someone who they could see more and who’s parents they could meet . which was hard with long distance . however , his dad didn’t like me because i wasn’t ready to have sex with my ex yet 😒😒
when i get hit with that “he’s gone for real” wave, i try to just let it wash over me instead of fighting it. usually after i cry it out my brain feels a tiny bit lighter. you don’t have to think about moving on or dating or anything. just get through the day you’re in.
You think you can't get out of it but trust me you will get out of it... You cannot see or know how you will get out of it but trust me you will get out of it... The Bible says that God cannot send us challenges that we cannot overcome... so God sent you this challenge because he knows that you have the strength to go through it... I'm sorry I am talking about God and the Bible without even knowing whether you are a Christian but all I want to tell you is you will go through this even if you don't see how you will..
i lost someone where it wasn’t even our choice either, it was family stuff and distance and timing ruining everything. i remember that exact moment it hit me that he was really gone and i swear my chest actually hurt. the missing comes in waves like that and it feels so unfair when love didn’t die but the relationship did. you’re not crazy for spiraling. this kind of goodbye feels like a robbery
I feel you :( I had gone 8 days without him just for me to text him. The shame I feel is awful. It’s understandable that you don’t want to date anyone trust me I feel the same. I have come to terms with the idea that marriage, kids, relationships are not for me and I rather be alone. it messes with your sense of love and self. everything you feel is absolutely valid. Realistically if you want to move on you can’t have communication with his family because that’s still a tie you subconsciously have with him. Maybe later but right now as your mourning a loss you shouldn’t.