I know i should let go. I know he's not good for me in the long run. I know being with him has been hard and it's likely be the same if we stay together. The breakup was so unexpected... I've learned since people call is being "discarded" and that's exactly how it feels. Even though we had a fight, I was still sure our relationship had improved and we had gotten closer, that things were better. For him, it was the opposite. His insecurity and jealousy blinded him. He just could not trust me and saw a reason to question me every where. But I miss the good times. And I still love him.
Last updated on:2025-11-24T21:04:03+05:30
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when you think about staying with him long term, what part of that actually feels good for you and not just familiar?
both things can be true at the same time. i try to sit with the feeling without chasing it.
I am glad that you already know he's not good for you and he would have made life so hard...
i got “discarded” too and that word messed with me for months. i thought we were getting closer, he thought the opposite. his jealousy turned every good moment into proof in his head that i’d hurt him. i still missed the softness though. it’s so confusing when the love is real but the stability isn’t
I'm in the same boat. I hate that mine didn't feel I was worth the fight