my feelings don't mean anything to her

I chatted with her on social media after 115 days .she was brief and didn't engage much and I like an idiot threw myself at her.she still doesn't care much about my feelings for her and it hurt me all over again.she was never the affectionate type and never held value to love so I got what I deserved

Last updated on:2025-11-25T22:52:42+05:30

Comments (5)

VoidMuse
VoidMuse 3 mths ago

what made you decide to message her after 115 days? like was it hope or just missing the idea of her?

ChillAndLaugh601

I guess it was a bit of both but I'm thinking now that was a mistake

Limpodio
Limpodio 3 mths ago

every time i reach out like that, it usually ends with me feeling worse. what helps me is reminding myself that love isn’t supposed to feel like begging for scraps. it’s not easy, but pulling back saves me from that same hurt hitting again.

ChillAndLaugh601

yeah after 115 days I made so much progress and I feel like I messed it all up because I feel like a fool

sadteddy
sadteddy 3 mths ago

i once broke no-contact after like 3 months and he replied with the driest “ok” ever. i remember that sinking feeling, like damn… i waited all this time for THIS. it messed me up for days. so yeah, i get the sting you’re talking about