guys i feel like most people dont post this type of stuff most the time they just delete the app if they’re back with their ex but i wanted to tell u guys this.
even if i didn’t know u guys personally, i never really had people to talk to when me and him weren’t together and your comments and tips helped me so much.
for context we were on and off a lot but we meant so so much to eachother and that didn’t go away for either of us. it had always been me ending the relationships out of trauma (i got assulted not by him!!) and the last time we talked he ended it with me because since i was ready he doubted his commitment to me because it didn’t feel real and he was never in that decision.
my friend texted him yesterday asking how he is after us and if he misses me and he just straight up said yes and unblocked me. a mutual friend of ours told him that door is closed when he asked about me so he naturally assumed i was over him.
anyway he unblocked me yesterday and we called last night and hung out at school today. it was so good because we had never done anything close to couply in person due to my trauma. and now i’m pretty comfortable. i’m still keeping this app incase i need more advice and to help others in need of advice so if you ever need someone to talk to im here.
thank you for being a part of my journey. 🩷
Last updated on:2025-11-27T10:55:31+05:30
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Happy for you catie.
when you saw him at school and things felt “couply” for the first time, did it feel like your body relaxed or more like you were holding your breath?
holding my breath i’m hoping i get used to it because i really like him
i’m really happy it felt good for you guys. just go slow with yourself, not the relationship. that’s the thing that’s helped me the most in situations like this. checking in with my own nervous system instead of the story in my head.
thank you so much
i had an on and off thing too where the breaks were always because i panicked from old trauma and he just… didn’t know how to hold that. and when we finally circled back it felt so weirdly soft and safe in a way it never did before. i’m glad you got to feel that comfort in person. it’s a big deal when your body finally stops shaking around someone you care about
good luck, I wish you the very best in your relationship. I hope you find healing for your past trauma, I definitely can relate to that
Congratulations, I just reached 101 of no contact myself. Win win for all of us ☺☺
Im going through something similar, I need someone to talk to, if possible kindly text
hi remember that what ever u feel just let it flow here ... the love and support here is amazing
I hope it all goes well for you and wish you both the best
thank you so much