I dont know what is wrong with me today iam on no contact day 52 been split up 11 weeks tomorrow. he left me randomly outta blue and the only info I was given is he didnt love me anymore later had confirmation he had met someone else through Facebook. when he left he blocked me on absolutely everything and has never unblocked me. iv been doing okay but today i have the biggest urge to contact him not sure how I would when im blocked everywhere but I desperately want to contact him. I miss him so much today. x
Last updated on:2025-11-26T19:09:27+05:30
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firstly, HERES A HUG for you, 52 days is HUGE
u left him for good for sure, u know that right?
heres something you can do:
1. Write a letter to him with whatever you want to say to him
2. If he has a caller tune play it on youtube stop it abruptly, and say whatever u wanted to out loud
3. Text yourself on WhatsApp thinking you're actually texting him
If its the urge to know what he's doing then, idk man, honestly i dont know if I'll ever reach the phase you're in, why is this such a tragedy bro, why does it have to be so daunting and scary
what do you think you’re hoping to feel if you did reach out? like not the logic part… the emotional part your brain is craving today.
on the days where it feels unbearable, i usually just try to ride the wave instead of fighting it. i tell myself the urge isn’t a sign, it’s just grief doing its thing. you don’t need to act on it. it always settles if you don’t pour fuel on it.
thank you I thinking just scared im nearly 36 and having to start over again when I thought I was settled and happy I also have a child from a previous relationship who had a good relationship and this hurts feeling like iv somehow let my child down too x
Thank you its the fact the day before we was fine he was booking holidays abroad for next year for us and everything the day after boom gone blocked from everywhere im not sure if this is narrastic behaviour or what.But the lack of closure and having to find out the information myself is heartbreaking I was hoping at some point he would reach out but everyday what goes by confirms this isnt going to happen x
ugh i felt this in my chest. when my ex blocked me everywhere after leaving me for someone new, i swear the “i need to reach out” days hit like a truck outta nowhere. it’s wild how you can be doing okay then suddenly your whole body is like “just talk to him once.” it’s that old attachment flare up, not you going backwards. i’ve been there
it's actually for the better that you've no way of reaching out to him because this urge would pass after a little bit of struggle and time but if you had the wound would be reopened and hurt you even more.so hang in there . proud of you!