So something shit happened. I wanted to go to him. except I can't. I want his support. but I'm not sure if he'd even care.
Last updated on:2025-11-26T22:52:02+05:30
So something shit happened. I wanted to go to him. except I can't. I want his support. but I'm not sure if he'd even care.
Last updated on:2025-11-26T22:52:02+05:30
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what happened that made you want to run to him? like was it something emotional or something that just made you feel really alone in the moment?
when i get that i need her right now” feeling, i usually make myself pause for like… 30 minutes. i let the wave pass a bit. most times i realize i’m actually wanting comfort, not her. it saves me from making myself feel worse.
having one of those awful days where all i wanted was my ex’s voice, even after he’d already shown me he couldn’t show up for me. the craving for that comfort hits like a truck, even when your brain knows it’s not safe. you’re not crazy for wanting him… it’s just the old attachment flaring up
omg this is so real, I had just left a 3 year relationship, been no contact for about 10 days now and I tried to complete this quiz that i found online, but there was a question asking "where do you go when you feel stressed / anxious"
and it is so crazy because for the past 3 years I have become so used to going to him whenever something bad happens, good or bad for that fact.
so the question now is, who do I now run to ??? 😭😭😭
I hope that you figure it out girl !!!