heck my heckin CHUNGUS life

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So something shit happened. I wanted to go to him. except I can't. I want his support. but I'm not sure if he'd even care.

Last updated on:2025-11-26T22:52:02+05:30

Comments (4)

heart4u
heart4u 3 mths ago

what happened that made you want to run to him? like was it something emotional or something that just made you feel really alone in the moment?

Drowning
Drowning 3 mths ago

when i get that i need her right now” feeling, i usually make myself pause for like… 30 minutes. i let the wave pass a bit. most times i realize i’m actually wanting comfort, not her. it saves me from making myself feel worse.

heart4u
heart4u 3 mths ago

having one of those awful days where all i wanted was my ex’s voice, even after he’d already shown me he couldn’t show up for me. the craving for that comfort hits like a truck, even when your brain knows it’s not safe. you’re not crazy for wanting him… it’s just the old attachment flaring up

cutiefoxxo
cutiefoxxo 3 mths ago

omg this is so real, I had just left a 3 year relationship, been no contact for about 10 days now and I tried to complete this quiz that i found online, but there was a question asking "where do you go when you feel stressed / anxious"
and it is so crazy because for the past 3 years I have become so used to going to him whenever something bad happens, good or bad for that fact.
so the question now is, who do I now run to ??? 😭😭😭
I hope that you figure it out girl !!!