day 19, and I’ve been feeling so great these last couple days. thought I was making progress. was telling myself to get your hopes up on him anymore it’s time to focus on you. it’s time to move on and be happy for both of you guys… but today I accidentally ran into him. I held my own. kept it cordial and short. but he seemed so happy and not phased by our breakup. it’s hitting me like a ton of breaks. I was lying to myself. I realized I had too many hopes on us getting back together and after seeing how he was today hurt me. 5years and he acts like nothing mattered. I know he has a “new friend” I canr stop thinking about how is she making him more happy to were he didn’t want me anymore
Last updated on:2025-11-27T18:35:37+05:30
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when you saw him, what exactly made it hit the hardest? was it the way he acted or the story your mind told you after?
the story my mind told me after. the wat he acted hurted me but I tried to tell myself it’s just a front. even so that hurt as well. I realized I had more hope in me than I should’ve had and that what got me.
you were doing better for a reason. one painful run-in doesn’t erase that. it’s just your brain reacting to the shock of seeing him look fine. give yourself a day to feel it, don’t make any huge meaning out of it.
bumping into my ex around week 3 and he looked like he slept 12 hours, hit the gym, found jesus AND won the lottery. meanwhile i was shaking inside pretending to be “chill.” that moment when you realize you were secretly hoping for a reunion… yeah, that was me too. it’s like everything you built with them just gets shrugged off and it makes you feel replaceable. you’re not. i promise you’re not
see girl..if he has made a new friend if he can find a replacement for u so soon, please move on ,he doesn't deserve you, life is more than this, chase success money and positively love will come to you in the best ways
Be proud of how you dealt with things today. Use this to find your closure.