so for context me and my ex have been broken up for 4 months and its been on and off because he thought he could be ok with it but he wasnt and basically unfortunately he just doesnt know what he wants which is why things ended however, when we last spoke we agreed on no contact and when hes figured himself out and I've let go of what happened we said we can try again and see how things go if they work they work if they dont they dont? honest opinions on this please 🙏
Last updated on:2025-11-27T00:33:33+05:30
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do you feel like the idea of “trying again later” is giving you comfort or is it keeping you from actually healing right now?
possibly but in my mind I am prepared for it to not work at the same time yk like im 50/50 on it
i’ve been in that exact “maybe later” limbo and it drained the life out of me. my ex kept saying he needed to “figure himself out” too and i kept holding on to that tiny maybe. reading your post brought me right back to that weird mix of hope and exhaustion. it’s so hard when you love someone who’s just… not sure.
I think if you both wanna try again and are ready to compromise and work on the things that made you break up in the first place - you guys must try again and fight for this. You dont give up on love that easily. But if you dont believe that the things that made you feel like you should break up can be repaired, its better to stay as you are now
yeah so we broke up because he wasnt sure and didnt want a relationship because of all of it not because I did anything wrong. but that requires time so thats what we are doing, we broke up and I suggested time and maybe later coming back and he agreed to it 🤷‍♀️