what do i do

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i just feel like it’s not getting better. everyday i can’t get my mind off him. i still have sleepless nights and long days and im always thinking about what he’s doing and who he’s with.

Last updated on:2025-12-01T01:19:58+05:30

Comments (9)

TR93
TR93 3 mths ago

I feel the exact same. its now day 25 NC and I cant see a future where I won't feel this way!

GreyFade
GreyFade 3 mths ago

do you feel like you miss him, or is it the routine and closeness you had with him that your mind keeps reaching for? sometimes that difference says a lot.

JoyfulAndBright614

same here...

darkYstrdy
darkYstrdy 3 mths ago

i was allowed to think about him. like a 10 minute window. it stopped him from taking over my whole day. not a fix, just something that makes things a little less heavy.

ProfessorTal
ProfessorTal 3 mths ago

I totally get you. Its always about closure, and you will get yours after some time. I promise you it will get better, it will be okay and youll grow from it 🫶

ladyT
ladyT 3 mths ago

same for me ... I wonder why his not going insane like I am . I honestly just want to fast forward to next year this time

BrightSide768
BrightSide768 3 mths ago

I feel you, I'm in the same position as ye hoping things will get better

GentleHeart6
GentleHeart6 3 mths ago

Same for me and it is normal to do that. Try shift your focus back to myself instead of them, or do something else that can occupy your mind to detach. I also try to resist looking at old text messages or pictures of them (although I do give in sometimes).

Elezaquin
Elezaquin 3 mths ago

when my ex left, my brain was stuck on him like a loop i couldn’t shut off. i’d wake up thinking about who he was texting and fall asleep imagining the worst. it felt endless. you’re not crazy for feeling like this… it’s literally what heartbreak does to us.