She called me recently to tell me about all the parties she’s been going to how she’s been flirting with guys who then follow her on Instagram and how she finally feels beautiful inside and out. She mentioned her exams are going really well meanwhile I can barely function let alone study.
She broke up with me 3.5 months ago after 2.5 years together. I never wronged her. We traveled the world laughed at the silliest things and I loved her with all my heart. She was my first girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend. Back then she was so different.
Now it feels like she’s in a “party phase.” Her friends say she might be manic but she insists she’s happier than ever and just wants to go out and have fun.
After that call I asked her not to contact me anymore because I was finally starting to feel better but now I feel like I’m back at square one. She said she only reached out because I once asked her not to disappear completely. Still I can’t handle hearing things like this from her.
I feel devastated. It’s like she’s become a completely different person in just a few months. She’s out enjoying herself while I’m left with nausea and chest pain just thinking about it. I’m trying to heal but the memories of us together keep replaying in my mind and stop me from moving forward.
I want to be happy again someday and hopefully find someone healthier to share my life with. But right now I just feel lost.
I’d like to get my life back on track study more exercise focus on myself. I was doing all that but now I feel like I’m barely surviving.
My mom suggested I go to church and maybe that could help. I don’t know. Any advice would mean a lot.
Last updated on:2025-11-27T20:47:02+05:30
Comments (5)
Block your ex, don't engage with any attempt from them to reach out. She most likely wants to keep you on the backburner and/or torture you at the same time. Take time to focus on yourself
Let her continue this trajectory she's on.
Go move on and do your own thing and meet a woman that actually cares for you.
start again. put that call in the back of your mind and do all those things that you mentioned. one foot after the other
Your ex sounds like a garbage human. Have some respect for yourself and block her. If she cared about your feelings even a fraction, she wouldn’t tell you shit like that knowing it’s gonna hurt you.
she party cuz she not over you she wan show she fine happy do u think she cheat sign or she just hurt yall break up . I recommend u to go therapy church go walk take care yourself rest sleep drink lot water