Alright, it’s been 90 days since we broke up. There’s so many things that happened in three months.
He wrote to me one night and deleted it (two months ago).
He wore a ring I give him on a special day (one month ago).
Now he posts a lot of things, but I don’t think it has a meaning.
The only thing that caught my attention was, a few days ago (and even less than a month ago) he updated a file on Google drive we had in common with stuff of his classes or analysis (we study science). The thing is that I don’t believe he remembers this file is shared with me (again, this is my thought, I want to ask you if you believe is accidental or not) the only prove I have for this thought to be real is the fact that, a year ago, when he created the drive, he didn’t remember the name until I said to him.
It’s been a year since he posted something on that drive. (Again, a year before, and also a breakup before (lol), he uses this file again).
Another thing I would like to ask you: yesterday, I was at college and he walked past me, logically, he didn’t even say ‘Hi’. The thing is that he passed again, again and again (in total, he walked past me around three times). I could explain this attitude because he also works there and I was sitting like in the aisle that connected his ‘office’. Also, there are two ways to go to that place, the aisle that I was and another one that is parallel to the one I was. He could perfectly see me and chose the one that I wasn’t (I believe). What do you think? (sorry about my English, I mainly speak Spanish)
Last updated on:2025-11-28T22:55:03+05:30
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i’m curious… when you saw him walk past those times, did he look tense or completely neutral? like was there any tiny shift in his face or body language that you noticed?
i usually remind myself that mixed signals don’t equal intention. sometimes people just… do things. focusing on what he actually says or does toward you helps me not spiral too much.
had an ex who used to randomly update our shared notes months after we ended and it would mess with my head so bad. those tiny actions feel huge when you still care. i get why you’re overthinking every detail
I forgot to tell, he requested to follow me on Insta a month ago. I didn’t accepted him. In fact I left the request on waiting just to see when he will quit it.
It’s been a month and the request is still there. Is there a meaning or not?
I think the meaning is that he wants to follow you. maybe reconnect. it’s up to you if you want to accept the follow request.