is 45 day's not enough?

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so today i celebrated 🥳 45 days of nc...ironic right? is this not enough for him to come back though..why am i still very much attached and waiting for him, maybe it's because part of me knows that he's spiralling right now(from all those reposts and likes he does on tt )the regrets the i miss you.., the nf new songs like sorry,fear, or home the heart break quotes, poem and the my gf posts...are these not enough?!

Last updated on:2025-11-29T18:09:13+05:30

Comments (7)

SadEnough
SadEnough 3 mths ago

do you feel like you’re waiting for the old version of him or the one you’re seeing now?

HexiFly769
HexiFly769 3 mths ago

the old would be nice, thank you😭

Eillmo
Eillmo 3 mths ago

my ex and still checking his songs and reposts like they were secret messages for me. that whole “maybe he’s spiralling” thing kept me stuck for MONTHS. it’s wild how our heart holds on even when the person doesn’t show up

HexiFly769
HexiFly769 3 mths ago

yes it's really hard to not held onto that smidgen of attachment we have.

Satanslove
Satanslove 3 mths ago

Let him reach out if he wants to reconnect and stay grounded

BraveXOXO278
BraveXOXO278 3 mths ago

I think you need to focus on you. Let him spiral. If its meant to be it will be.

HexiFly769
HexiFly769 3 mths ago

i know, but i just can't seem to move on. may be it's because I'm giving him to much head space idk.