I'm trying really, really hard to stop myself. I think I'm just really lonely. I know it's not going to do any good and it's just going to hurt the both of us. he's really adamant about no contact and wanting to move on & heal from our breakup. I want to respect him so bad, but this hurt is consuming me and I just want to talk to him to see if this is really the end of us. I think I'm a fool. I'm a fool that can't accept the reality of the situation.
Last updated on:2025-11-28T23:01:02+05:30
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when you think about reaching out, is it because you miss him, or because you’re scared of sitting with the finality of it? both can hit like hell.
i was writing out everything i wanted to say instead of sending it. just to get it out of my chest. the urge still sucked but at least it didn’t blow things up for both of us.
when my ex said he needed space and went full no contact, i kept fighting the urge to text because the silence felt louder than the breakup. that kind of loneliness just eats at you. you’re not a fool, you’re hurting
same your not alone like im in a break bc she is to stressed and i mis her so bad but i feel i must respect her decision hand fokus on myself i i can help try to keep your self busy and pray if this decision will help you and your partner bc we all grow in bad times trust in the lord