Lemme tell you guys a story of me, someone who been chasing a giy, missing him, wanting him back, seek for his attention A LOT. Doing everything just to get his attention.
He broke up with me and I keep on trying and trying to get his attention. Post on whatsapp status stuff that will make him engage. I keep on texting and texting and texting him. I tried no contact but after awhile I will text him. And he disappoint me every time with the way he responded. Until the day he left me on seen. That's the end.
I stopped contacting him, deleted his phone number, deleted all text messages. I tried to surround myself with people who ACTUALLY cared about me. My family, my friends.
Listen, these people they left you because they DON'T VALUE YOU as much as you valued them in your life. It hurts but instead of that, focus on people who actually want to be with you in life. I'm not talking about just romantic relationship but perhaps your family and friends who will be there for you.
Once the no contact curse ends, I realised how much vulnerable and weak I am. "i miss him", "i wanna text him so badly". nahh that's the past. I don't care anymore about him.
Last updated on:2025-11-28T21:05:03+05:30
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I love this!!
tell me how u got stronger
Stop caring, that's the key. Because I realised when I cared about him, that's mean he's still important in my life, I still wanna know updates about his life.
But when I ask God to remove this caring feelings towards him, I goes numb. I don't care anymore and I don't have the urge to text him at all now
@fafalala he texted me again today after 23 days of no contact and I feels nothing. It's annoying now. When I used to chase the bit crumbs of his attention back then