So we've been talking again and meeting in person even though we've both been busy with college. It's been great, but I'm not really sure if this is going to work the way I want it to.
After she went cold and I had no contact with her for a couple of weeks, we started talking again. I started trying to get closer, and it kinda worked to be honest, she's more open to me.
I started daring to send photos of my face and my daily life, and she sent some too, but sometimes she replies to my chats late even though she’s already read them, still replies. (maybe cause i'm sending too much text tho)
There was one time when we were going home and I asked her to go together, but since she had a group project with her rebound, she went with that guy. She actually told me she was with her friends and that he was there too, but we ended up bumping into each other on the bus. After she got home, she immediately she's sorry for that weird moment, she felt bad and told me that they were just close friends, the same as I am to her. She told me If i feel something is wrong in my heart, i can ask her about it.
is this friendzone or progress i can't tell
i can't live to find out that this just ends here. i just so dumb and stubburn to stop trying
Last updated on:2025-12-02T08:40:05+05:30
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do you feel like she’s giving you the same effort you’re giving her, or does it feel like you’re the one carrying most of it right now?
the only thing that’s ever helped me in this kinda situation is paying attention to how consistent someone is, not how sweet they can be in certain moments. if the energy is up and down, i try to step back a little and see what they do when i stop pushing. that usually tells me way more than any text or apology.
i had a thing with someone who kept me close enough to hope but far enough to never feel safe. the mixed signals messed with my head like crazy. what you said about her going with him then apologizing later… that was my exact cycle for months. it drains you in ways you don’t even notice till you’re exhausted.
stop trying on her it would be better been there done that.