potential date
it’s only been 45 days and I almost went on a date with another guy. I chickened out of course. why do I feel guilty and weird about potentially going out with someone???
it’s only been 45 days and I almost went on a date with another guy. I chickened out of course. why do I feel guilty and weird about potentially going out with someone???
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OMG I FELT THE SAME EXACT WAY!! I went out with someone and almost the whole time I was thinking about him. and when we parted way I broke down and almost puked.. if you feel guilty try to take a little more time for you. make sure you're talking to people for the right reasons.
I also went on a date after 40+ days.
it was nice to go on a date and meet someone. I would say i am 80% ready to meet someone, i still have work to do... but it was nice seeing there are good guys out there.
but if u dont feel ready, u will be after few weeks so dont pressure urself...
that makes sense! I just don’t know if I feel ready. I’m assuming if I’m feeling guilty I’m not ready?
Maybe you still have a sense of longing for him. Understandable. He meant so much to you. For me, I imagine I wont be able to date again until the spring. I always detach after heartbreak, but part me wants to go out to the places to date, the music scene, the vibe of the city, and meet new people where i live. I do it for distraction now though, but when I stop thinking of her like I want her back, thats when I know Ill be ready.
I can relate to that. I love a good distraction. I don’t necessarily long for him I think I just long for company if that makes sense ?