I see so many heart breaking stories here, but we should also start posting when we are Healing....
I am now on 45 days no contact...and the first few days.. I felt I was almost gonna die... it was so painful I cried everyday... but then the next few months. .I stopped crying... but there was concrete pain in my heart ... and now... the concrete pain isn't there anymore... just the memories....
I am not fully healed yet but I can see the progress bit by bit ... I know I will fully heal and I know I will date again ...
it might not look like we will pass this...but we will!
we will heal!
Last updated on:2025-12-01T21:53:15+05:30
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how do you deal with memories popping up unexpectedly? do they hit you hard or just feel… dull now?
if they are painful, I let them out... I cry
if they are just memories passing through, I tell myself its just memories .. I did the right thing... something better is coming...
it’s wild how slowly healing creeps up on you. celebrating these tiny wins really helps, even if the heartbreak still lingers a bit.
exactly... celebrating small wins
i’m on no contact too… the first weeks felt like i was suffocating, now it’s just the hollow memories left. hang in there
The memories dont hurt after some time