we’ve been on no contact for 2 days now, my birthday is in a week and he requested that he sees me on the day to drop off a gift he already got me before we went no contact, should I let him?☹️ we were together for almost 5yrs and he said not to cut him off however our relationship just ended so I don’t know how to make sense of it all or if there’s even still hope..
Last updated on:2025-12-01T21:04:24+05:30
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do you think seeing him on your birthday will help you feel closure or set you back?
a bit of both
maybe just ask a friend to pick it up? avoids emotional mess but still gets your gift.
I’ll consider that 😭
i let him drop a gift and it wrecked me emotionally for days
so I shouldn’t let him?😩
can the break up be fixed?
I feel like it can be fixed but we’ve already gone through a month break back in June so I don’t know if he’d ever be willing to open up to the idea of working it out again.
@NitroSky624 if he want to drop off your gift , it feels he still cares. so maybe have one final conversation
it depends, if he screwed up in the relationship don’t allow him to have the chance to apologize, if the breakup was mutual maybe allow one last time for the long run so you both can heal, wishing you the best 🫶🏻
it was mutual,thank you sm🥺