breaking no contact
I just wanna ask him if he wants to catch up for a coffee or walk just to talk. Because I still at the back of my mind have hope we will try again and also want clarity on the reason for the breakup. But then if he does say no I will know to just completely get him out of my life u know, like it’s over over. Although if that happens I feel like I’ll break all over again, but I don’t want to live with the what’s ifs. What should I do?
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i’ve been there 😭 i kept holding onto hope for months, reaching out for “closure” only made it sting more. it’s brutal but letting go slowly helped me breathe again.
I kept on going back to him and every single time, he disappointed me up till the little tiny 'hope' I had is vanished. The reason why you wanna break no contact is because you still attached to the "what ifs", to the "there's still hope".
I'm not judging you but the best but not healthy way to move on in my opinion is to always go back to him and every time, he will disappoint me.
And now my heart is hard as rock. Go ahead do it tbh. If he didn't disappoint you, that's good maybe there's chances between both of you. But if not, you will learn something from it too