My narcissistic ex
My narcissitisc ex boyfriend of 2.5 years ended our relationsship in August. We had some contact after this where i was bringing back his books and other stuff. He wrote me a message 42 days ago about his father being sick. I understand that isn't true. He misses all the attention.
Today i saw him riding his bike outside my apartment and looking up to my livingroom.. This feels a bit strange and odd..I dont think he realized that I saw him. Any thoughts? my ex was very mentally abuse to me and this feels a bit scarf, why drivning outside my home and looking in? what does it meen??
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i got chills reading this. my ex used to “accidentally” pass by my place too after our breakup. it always felt like he wanted control or a reaction. that kind of weird lingering is so unsettling
Yes i feel the same. He wanted control always in any situation and I dont understand why he was outside my home. He was looking to see if i was there, but what is the purpose you think? i havn't message him anything beacause he will only ignore and deny what I say. Is the purpose to scare me you think? or just look that I am at home? What did you do when your ex turned up by your place???
I feel like he just misses the attention, and now that his seeing that you infact can live without him, since ( I am assuming ) that you two have been 42 days now contact, his now realizing that you can live without him and that hurts his ego.
his trying to get back into your life, you can either call / confront him which may be what he is hoping for, or maybe wait and see what happens, if he comes around again and you really feel threatened or scared in anyway, call someone to go speak to him, or go directly to the cops ?
Thank you for your replay. I cant talk to him about it beacause when I in the past said something that he did, he said it never happend and said I was mentally ill. (narcissist behaviour) He never ever takes resposabilitys for his actions and what he had done. I have to watch out. I think its strange beacause he can messeage me if he wants. (just so it dosnt get worse for my sake)
Thank you for the comment but I wanted a comment about his behaviour. Should i be worried about him being outside my home??? thanks again.🥰🥰
I think it was the best decision for both of you.You just need to focus on yourself and remember that he was abusing you mentally this whole time.
you'll find someone who values you!