i feel as if my life has been hell ever since my ex of one year cheated on me with there best friend. while their happily flaunting their relationship with all these supporters i’m losing all my friends, i keep getting so angry, i haven’t been clean since the breakup and it’s almost day 80. i thought by now things would have been better since they seem to have moved on in less than a day. now i just feel humiliated and as if no matter what i do ill never recover and get back up after this.
Last updated on:2025-12-09T04:52:42+05:30
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I too know the feeling of humility and it will fade .we put our selves out tgere in hopes of getting back that same loyalty and love and when they hand it over to someone else who didn't even work for it like we did it's hurtful .then to top it off they don't even recognize the lengths we went to love them.feels foolish right. guess it's tgere loss but ours too .trust a little less idk it sucks though
are you getting any kind of support right now, like even one person you feel safe being raw with? i’m wondering who’s in your corner.
to be honest i’ve always relied on my partner but given the situation i haven’t had anyone not really
i won’t lie, this stage is ugly and loud and unfair. but every time i got that angry or wanted to do something destructive, i tried to just sit with one feeling at a time. it doesn’t fix it, but it kept me here.
my ex left me for someone in our friend group too and it felt like my whole world turned on me overnight. the humiliation part… i remember that so clearly. it makes you feel disposable in a way that sticks. i’m really sorry you’re in that kind of pain
i’m glad someone understands, and really don’t feel bad, being discriminated like that is never a good feeling.