I've had so much time to think and it's made me realize I may never get over him. He will always have a special place in my heart. The problem was that our social lives were completely opposite, and that slowly depleted both of our mental heath. I feel we were the right people wrong time. We both have a lot to work through ( and he needs to grow up a little. tho ik not right now he deserves to be stupidly reckless and have the time of his life) so yeah, I love him. but right now I've gotta focus completely on me otherwise we'd never stand a chance. idek if he'd even want to try again in the future. idk that's just where my minds at lately. whether he takes me back or not. by then I'll have evolved into a better me. and that's all that truly matters.
Last updated on:2025-12-07T23:53:50+05:30
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i actually dont believe the right person wrong time because it cant be a wrong time with the right person,i suggest you stop thinking about if he will take you back in the future or doing things rn just to have a chance with him later, do things for YOU not for that relationship stop having hopes and try to accept that maybe you will never get back together and build your life around other things not around him.I just dont want you to have high hopes on something that is not sure,that can destroy your whole life.Love you❤️
this is exactly how I feel its okay you will heal, don't rush just focus on yourself
samee and it's crazy because I don't hate him
@daph you aren't supposed to hate someone you love be aise it was real, I'm having a terribly hard time focusing on myself with thoughts of her in my head but you have to do it for yourself don't worry about the world its all about you this chapter
i get the love part, but are you feeling ready to fully let go for yourself, or is it still tied to hoping he might come back?
sounds like you really get it giving yourself space to grow is the only way either of you could stand a chance later. stay patient with yourself
One phrase has helped me a lot, "The path to moving on and getting back together is the same". The path is to work on yourself and the rest will come naturally ❤️
i had the “right person, wrong time” too. it hurts like hell, but focusing on myself slowly helped me breathe again