My wife and I first met as teenagers

My wife and I first met as teenagers. She was already into tattoos at a young age and from the moment our eyes met we clicked instantly. About a year later our lives went in different directions. She met someone else had a daughter and later a son who wasn’t his. They broke up briefly during which she became pregnant with another son. Meanwhile I married someone else had three boys and eventually divorced.
Years later after her breakup I reached out to congratulate her on her baby and somehow we found our way back to each other. Five years down the line we were married had a daughter together and I adopted her son.
But then something devastating happened my middle son sexually assaulted her daughter. We had no idea until she told us and we immediately involved the police and CPS. After that tension grew between us. I tried to ignore it at first but she seemed distant always on her phone and I felt neglected. Still I didn’t want to let it bother me because she was the only woman who ever made me feel that way.
Eventually I made a mistake. A girl messaged me on Snapchat and even though I told her I was married I didn’t shut it down. My wife found out and called it emotional cheating. After that she started leaving on weekends for space. I accepted it but last month she was gone for weeks. Part of that time she was in the hospital so I didn’t question it but then her location showed up two towns away. She said it was a glitch. Yesterday she admitted she cheated and now wants to break up.

Last updated on:2025-12-03T20:27:02+05:30