I remember when I started this journey, holding on to the 30 days app, I was counting the seconds, I relapsed on day 1, and I just couldn't wait for time to whizz by. I thought the 30 days would bring magic to go back to the relationship that ended ... I thought that would be my happy ending.
Turns out the nearly 30 days forced me to really take a good look at myself fir who I am. The woman. Not his girlfriend. But the woman who yes, made mistakes but learned. And yes! I've learned so much after the breakup! He shattered my heart and feelings, but it took me courage and effort to build myself again. I've learned. He rejected and abandoned me. It's his loss. He was incapable to face me to breake me up. I'm not dealing with boys anymore.
The breakup has made me stronger. This is my new ME. I'm done with him. He didn't deserve me, more than that, he couldn't deal with me because he's just an immature boy man.
There was a time, 30 days ago when I would have done anything to hear him reaching out, I'd have been back right away, like a loyal dog. This time around, I'm not interested. I'm way out of his league. He thinks that his car, his flat, his money dazzle me ... We'll, not really. I know my value, and he cannot compete with my worth.
Man! I'm gold! I'm on fire! and I'm dooooooooone with him!
Last updated on:2025-12-08T18:01:03+05:30
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what was the moment you realized you were DONE and it wasn’t about missing him at all anymore?
i went through this too. my ex ghosted me and i legit spent weeks thinking if i just waited, he’d come back. but letting go of that fantasy? wild. feeling your own fire instead is EVERYTHING
The holding on to 30 days also ruined me 😭😭😭 Because there's TOO MANYYY get-back-with-your-ex gurus on YT that I watched after break up and then almost all said "If you want your ex back, you need to do a 30 days no contact".
SO I STUPIDLY HANG ON TO THE 30 DAYSSS UGHH and it's not even 30 days, maybe like only 2 days and then I broke no contact. But now I'm seeing his true colors and I don't want him anymore. No wonder people said "love yourself before loving others", because it's help to detach ourselves if anything bad happen to the relationship 😭
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