i think I’ve realized that the moment you truly move on is when life shows you that you are truly gonna find someone like them again, and even better. I think that’s why it’s so hard to move on in the beginning, because you view them with such rose-colored glasses. I really think that time, and the relationships you build after, as well as realizing that you can definently be happy without them. Makes you realize that it wasn’t them that gave you everything. That part of you the relationship got out of you still exists within you, and you will definently find people that bring out that version of you.
Last updated on:2025-12-17T02:35:48+05:30
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what was the moment for you when it clicked, like “oh… i might actually be okay without them”?
i reached out, realized the didn’t put the effort back. i knew that i did everything i could and i was honest with myself, but he still chose to keep me out of his life. then i started new friendships and i build confidence in myself and found a lot of happiness, then i realized that i actually didnt need him anymore to feel happy.
yeah… time kinda sneaks up on you. whenever i get into that “i’ll never feel this again” spiral, i try to remember that every version of me i loved came from me, not from them. it softens the grip a bit.
remember thinking my ex was the only person who could make me feel that alive. then i met someone later who showed me that the good parts of me weren’t because of him, they were already in me. it’s wild how clear everything gets once you’re not drowning in the beginning anymore.