when y'all think it's the right time to start talking to someone new??
like my life its boring without nobody in it
but when I add someone on snapchat they turn out to be shit asf.
I added someone like in the end of November I had a date like just seeing each other in person.
but later I saw that he tried to love bomb me
and I unadd him
but he its stuck in my mind
like his apparence was the best "my type"
idk menn..
or maybe Im just talking and tryna think about anything else rather than my ex...
Last updated on:2025-12-08T23:18:00+05:30
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do you think you liked him, or did he just show up at the exact moment your brain wanted to escape your ex for a bit?
no. I think I actually like him
bc that time they show up many guys
but only him stayed on my mind more
for me it only worked when i stopped forcing a timeline. like i talked to people but i didn’t put pressure on it meaning anything. if someone gave me weird vibes or moved too fast, i stepped back. just do tiny steps and let it be casual till it feels actually good, not just filling silence.
after my breakup i latched onto the first guy who even looked like my type. he love bombed me too and it was like my brain couldn’t let go even though he wasn’t good for me. it wasn’t even him i missed, it was the distraction from my ex. you’re not crazy for feeling stuck on his appearance. that’s exactly what my mind did when i wasn’t ready for someone real yet
but I wanna talk to him again
can I add him on snap??
i think once you stop being so much in pain is when u can date.. but u r right to unadd a love bomber even if he is ur type u can just have him for fun not for seriousness but still its good u recognise the love bombing