After the emotions have settled, I reached out because I wanted to apologise for my past behaviours, and just talk about what we want for the future as individuals. And selfishly, I just missed him. To my surprise he actually agreed to call me later in the day. I'm not expecting anything to come from it. I wanted to have a mature conversation. I know I could still move forward without him. But a part of me still want to make sure that there isn't anything left unsaid so there's no regret if we do part.
Last updated on:2025-12-08T19:48:02+05:30
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what’s the one thing you feel you’d regret not saying if this ends for good?
the only thing that’s helped me in moments like this is keeping my expectations super tiny. like… talk, be honest, but don’t let your heart sprint ahead of the actual conversation. staying grounded made it way less painful for me.
i did that exact same thing with my ex last year. i wasn’t trying to get back together either, i just needed to know i wasn’t leaving anything messy behind. that “i just miss him” part… yeah, i remember that ache. it’s weird how calm it feels when you’re not chasing an outcome anymore.
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