l've moved out from the city of this person I tried to move on from around a month ago. I broke a month of no contact to say goodbye to him which led us to talking until nowadays, except for I don't feel anything for him anymore romantically as I've fallen in love with this person I met at my current city
What I'm trying to say is you might get back together, or not, but you will move on. Don't beat yourself up just because you can't suddenly snap out of the pain just like how the "coaches" propagate. The person you try to move on once was the most important thing to you, and it's so painful to let go of something so precious. Allow yourself to grief, to cherish the memories. It can take up to 3 years to realize that you deserve better (happened to me) but You. Will. Move. On.
Last updated on:2025-12-19T17:21:20+05:30
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i’m curious, what helped you start feeling ready to let go and open your heart to someone new?
it just happened. I had always tried to move on from the previous person, so when I found the new guy it was like I found a new "sanctuary" and I don't need him anymore
take your time grieving 💛 it’s okay to miss them and still fall for someone else. healing isn’t a straight line, and that’s totally normal.
i held on for months thinking i couldn’t live without her, but eventually meeting new people made me realize life moves on
thanks for this means a lot to me specially