we have been In no contact 5weeks yo then he breaks silence with congratulates message like 3lines about my study I replied thank u hope u good too he liked my message and go silence again he always watch my stories and don’t do move what does that means
Last updated on:2025-12-10T19:54:30+05:30
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do you want him back or are you just trying to understand why he’s doing this? sometimes figuring out your own feelings helps more than analyzing him.
I want him back
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sounds like he’s keeping you on the hook without actually committing. focus on yourself rn, not decoding his tiny messages.
omg yes, been there 😭 i went NC for weeks and got a tiny “hey” like that. it honestly messes with your head, wondering if they even care.
it’s been 2 months now and he is so less active on social he dissapear like 3 days and open for some hours and go again just he opens to see my stories do u think he is healing and he will come back or he just trying to move on
We have had multiple break ups and he would have long stretches of silence and then break then the silence with a short, insignificant comment. I would get so excited and resume as if nothing has happened. This became a regular thing. I didn't question it much because we had so much love for each other and we had such a strong bond. But there comes a point where you have to realize that if 'love' is actually the reality... How could he stand the silence for so long and then just send a basic comment...? Could YOU do that? If you couldn't, ask yourself why not... And then there is your answer to the relationship.
just leave it there don't try to chase or anything.he may be testing the waters or something to see in what emotional state you're in right now. so keep calm and regulated he needs to see that.