so my break up was months ago..
and now im trying to meet new people
and I met a guy
he was so nice ,good looking funn chill vibe
but
he was kinda "play boy" tried to love bomb me ..
in first he chased me
but then
I gave up so easily I become emotional with him I started talking "serious" wiith him likee
"you should talk to my father"
my sister said dont talk to men like this bc they dont know you , you dont know them too and he will be in shock and distant himself..
so we talked about 1 week and had one date
just to see each other in person..
it was so good it went so good
but later and the things that happened he distanced himself and I gave him 3 days
1 day he didnt do that much
in day 2 he tried to catch my attention
in day 3 he texted me when I send him a snap
he said "you're the best ...(compliments)"
but didn't try to talk more
And I told him
I wanna unadd you bc
I dont see this anywhere going...
he agreed and we unadd each other
its been 2 or 3 weeks idk
I wanna add him idk
I should let it flow
chill vibe
should I.?
Last updated on:2025-12-09T07:54:28+05:30
Comments (11)
what do you really want from adding him again? just casual chat, or do you hope something serious could happen? sometimes knowing that helps decide if it’s worth it.
no I dont hope for something serious
actually I just wanna chat a little bit here and there
honestly, letting it flow works better than forcing it. you’re still healing from your breakup, so adding him back might just stir old confusion. maybe take it slow with yourself first and see if you really want that energy in your life.
too late I added him already 😭
may I ask why you want to reads him, if he doesn't giving off good vibes? there's no point in chasing what doesn't want to be caught
idk i like him and i think i distanced him myself
do you think I dont have to do this move?
@CozyAndJoy868 it's your decision obviously and you've already added him now 😀
after a breakup i met a guy who was fun and flirty but also kinda a player… i got too attached too fast and he pulled away, and it hurt so much. i still think about if i should’ve just let it flow instead of overthinking everything.
yeahhh omg
we are in same situation
should we try again with those dude's??
it seems funn