So I broke no contact, 4 hours ago.
No response, he didn’t even read my message.
It’s weird bc we spent 3 years together and, even if he cheated and everything, I still thought he cared.
Will he ever have interest in responding me again? Maybe he already moved on, it’s only been 5 days but still. Idk. I miss him.
Last updated on:2025-12-09T23:48:23+05:30
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what were you hoping he’d say if he did respond? sometimes the answer to that tells you more about what you actually need.
Honestly, I don’t even know. I just told him that I really do love him and that I actually care, that I hope we will come back to eachother when we will be older. He ended up answering…He said « I love you. Sorry I don’t know what to say else. But I love you » then I sent another thing and he didn’t answer but it’s ok bc I think he will just never answer again…At least not now. But, I’m not really waiting for his answer rn, I just wanted to tell him what I had on my heart. Now that he knows, I feel a little bit better…Ik, thats stupid. But I really care abt him
Oh please don't give your precious time and energy to another person who doesn't deserve it, especially after he hurt you so deeply. Do you really miss him or the person you were with him?
He ended up answering…He said « I love you. Sorry I don’t know what to say else. But I love you » then I sent another thing and he didn’t answer but it’s ok bc I think he will just never answer again…At least not now.
I just miss everything about us together, when everything was perfect. I keep questioning myself why did we end up like this.
when i don’t get a reply, i try to take it as info instead of rejection. like… this is who they’re choosing to be right now. it hurts, but it also saves me from waiting around for someone who’s not showing up.
He ended up answering…He said « I love you. Sorry I don’t know what to say else. But I love you » then I sent another thing and he didn’t answer but it’s ok bc I think he will just never answer again…At least not now.
breaking no contact with my ex who cheated on me too, and the silence felt worse than the breakup. i kept thinking he’d at least care after all that time. it messed with my head so much. you’re not crazy for missing him, that bond doesn’t just vanish overnight