He broke up with me 52 Days ago after 2 Years together. No contact since 24.10. this year. He seamed very confused. On day it was all my fault, 2 hourse later he said, that it's his fault. He blocked me everywhere, but I still think that my Name and the reminding of me still hurts him because he unfollowed not everywhere at the same time and the last unfollow was 2 Weeks ago. He said, he wanted to be friends with me than why he keeps removing me?
I think he also talk to other woman. Maybe not like he want a new relationship but just maybe.
How likely is it that he will unblock me and approach me again?
Like his one friend said, its over over and the other one said, that he just needs time and is not like himself right now. But this was also one month ago.
I asked my tarot cards and they say also mixed things. My feelings tell me, that I still love him and I think there is still a connection. But am I wrong?
I don't know, it is confusing.
Last updated on:2025-12-11T00:35:54+05:30
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do you feel like the “connection” you’re holding onto is from the relationship you had, or from the way the breakup played out and left things unfinished?
both. we had a very strong conection in the relationship. Maybe because I was his first girlfriend and so I was his first kiss and so on. I think that will always connect us together. And also from the break up because I think a person who doesn't want you would ignore you but I think, that it triggers something inside him, when he hears my name or see places we were. He is a very soft and lovely boy and want to control the situation because he don't wants to get hurt. But sometimes love can't be controlled and thats why he was always scared to lose me and even pushed me many times away and one day later he pulled me back. The difference now was, that I was so hurt, that I wanted more time to think and pushed him away. A few days later I sorted my thoughts and wanted to fix it again like we always did. But yeah, now he was hurt and couldn't take me back.
I think everyday of him. sometimes good, sometimes bad and nearly every dream is about him. I still have everything from him and also a part of his cuddly towel. I know how important it is to him and I could swear, that he would want it back, but he didn't ask so it is mine for now.
So maybe both. Because we had a very strong but also sometimes stressful relationship. And because he left things unfinished like his cuddly towel.
Girl, he might come back, it's very important you don't take him back. Or at least, talk about the whole stuff with him
thanks for youre reply, I would definitely talk about the hole thing if he come back.
@KokoFizz621 you're welcome, we got this🫂
when someone is this inconsistent, i try to take their actions louder than their words. mixed signals usually mean they don’t even know what they want. giving yourself space to breathe might help more than waiting on him.
thanks for replay ^^
yes, he told me, that he don't know what to do but I told him more than one time what I want and what I need. If he doesn't see how important thinks like little gifts are (not expensive just like a flower from the street or even a rock would be finde just the reminder, that he tought of me yk) than I can't help him either. My head understands, that were not together anymore but my heart can't let go. And maybe I don't actually try to let go either.
my ex did the same confused push-pull stuff… blaming me, then blaming himself, then blocking, then slowly removing me everywhere like it was some emotional drip torture. i kept thinking it meant he still cared. it just kept me stuck. i know how much this messes with your head, i’m sorry you’re in it
Thanks, that you make me feel that I am not the only one ^^
Sometimes I don't even care anymore. I don't wanna bother him and I think I made it clear, that he always can come to me and I will be there. Maybe he is scared but yeah.
I think he still cares but doesn't know how to speak to me or maybe his parents are in his way like they already were in our relationship.
Things went wrong on both sides but we could fix it. But just together. It doesn't make sense trying to safe it alone.
he will be back.
thanks for making me hope ^^