Also...it gets better gang. It's pretty normal to think of them every now and then, think of them everyday if you must. Just try not to check in or forget, only try to reduce your expectations to zero. not easy but it'll be worth it
#yallgotthis❤🩹💜#sausandolla? 😭✌
Last updated on:2025-12-11T02:18:45+05:30
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what’s been the toughest part for you right now… the missing them or the hoping they’ll come back?
None, I'm FREEEE😭😭😭😭✌
but a few months back, it was me missing her, I cut contact myself so it was pretty hard on me, felt like I lost myself, now I'm just focused on building a new self rather than waiting on the old one
yeah reducing expectations is hard, but it really does help. i just kept reminding myself “they’re not my person anymore” and slowly the checking-in urge dropped.
Exactly, for me she actually called one time, and then I realized, she ain't all at lmaoo😭😭😂😂
i used to think about my ex all day and still kept expecting something from someone who already left. it took me a while to realise the expectations hurt more than the memories
Awww, you got this