It’s been almost two months and I still think about him every single day. The pain has eased a little but the emptiness of missing his presence remains. I keep replaying the good times in my mind.
I’ve tried putting myself out there but no matter what I do I end up thinking of him. It took us so long to build what we had and the thought of starting all over again with someone new feels exhausting. He knew me he already understood all the little things about me. Why should I have to rebuild that with someone else?
I’m just tired. I don’t even want a relationship right now; I just want something or someone to help me forget.
Last updated on:2025-12-12T09:28:27+05:30
Comments (5)
I feel you somuch. but try to heal yourself like everything that reminds of him photos,gifts thrown them. And yes if that will made u feel better talk to new people maybe thats how you'll heal. When I wanted to talk to new people everyone was saying that I have to heal first but I couldn't heal If my focus was only on him. honestly for me meeting new people made me heal much faster.
sometimes the best thing is to focus on yourself and small joys instead of rushing into someone new. distractions like hobbies or journaling helped me slowly breathe again.
i was stuck thinking about my ex every day for months too. it’s exhausting wanting what you had, even if it’s gone.
Missing after a breakup is completely normal especially when you shared so much time I youare in pain but it won't dtay forever what you hoped the relationship would be be patient with yourself healing isnt about forgetting its about slowly building a life again
I completely understand this! me too. together 17 years and the thought of dating and starting again just gives me anxiety. I think it’s good to just be on your own for a while ❤️