my husband and I seperated, it started of good I was happy to be away from him .. but then he starts seeing a much younger, attractive women and I’m crushed! the feeling of rejection, not being good enough and a huge crush to my confidence!! is this normal to feel like this ? I want to just move on but it’s so hard while I watch them doing stuff he wouldn’t do with me.
Last updated on:2025-12-12T00:24:18+05:30
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this sounds so heavy. do you feel like the pain is more about him moving on fast or about the comparison part?
it’s hard to work out but yes, the pain of her moving on and the fact he’s replaced me with a much younger model. my head is all over the place and anxiety is high.. I think things are gonna clear soon in my head and I’ll be able to handle this situation much better.. just need some time.
*him
it’s okay to feel crushed. it’s kinda part of the process. what helped me was pulling my energy back from watching their life. even a little distance gives your brain space to breathe again.
my ex started dating someone younger and all smiley with her, it shattered me. i thought i wasn’t enough. i promise the rejection feeling is normal, even if it hurts like hell