71 days. More of an achievement than I ever thought. I have healed. I get sad sometimes though. Lonely. Flashbacks of memories. What I have learnt is that you move on but you'll never forget them. I miss him so much but I'd rather just miss him from a distance
Last updated on:2025-12-12T16:24:06+05:30
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we broke up in septemer now. its 12 december
and yes its true you'll feel so much better
will you forget about them? noo! he/she Will crosse your mind but you'll leave it in the past 🫶
when those flashbacks hit, is it usually certain moments or like the whole vibe of how things were with him?
the whole vibe. And the thought of what we would have been if he hadn't left
the loneliness hits in weird waves, but what helped me was letting it pass without fighting it. just reminding myself that missing them isn’t a setback. it’s just your heart adjusting.
when i hit around 2 months after my breakup, i remember telling my friend the same thing. like… i’m moving on but the memories don’t just evaporate. they sit in the corners of your mind. and honestly missing someone from afar felt safer than going back into the chaos. 71 days is huge. i hope you’re proud of yourself even on the sad days
thank you
how did you get to this place of peace in 71 days? for me, each day my emotions are up and down and then I start to spiral with my thoughts and feelings. sometimes I can hardly breathe
I let myself feeel. I felt all of it.I even had panic attacks plus I'm asthmatic so you can just imagine the situation I was in. Panic attacks never left, I get tensed a little and boom I'm struggling to breath. But you'll get through it. Feel sad, find comfort in sadness. Sometimes there's joy in sadnesss
@BraveNew475 I've never looked at it like that. I will definitely try and change my sadness into a positivity whilst telling myself I can! I will! I am stronger than this!